Nice Guy Syndrome

   For the past weeks, I had learned that nice guys are much putted to friendzone than those who are assholes and bastard guys. In fact when you look around, there is a number of friendzoned nice guys out there. I bet many of you know a nice guy that was lamented into the entitlement of friendzone. But do know some body who is a jerk that was putted into dreadful platonic relationship?  What is with these nice guys that make them friendzoned over and over.

    So often, we associated nice guy image as figures of pity, victims of shyness while some find it as creepy hell. As I am surfing around the internet, I came across an article entitled "The Nice Guys and Friend zone". Jonathan wrote an excellent piece on the matter, addressing nice guys. There are several things that i'd like to expand more. However, you should read the whole thing.


     2) Are You Being A Hypocrite?
          This is one of the problem with those nice guys out there. Some are  
          just pretending to be as nice as they could. They do everything to like   
          nice. Giving you something that make them look that they are  
          thoughtful, doing something something heroic that would make them 
          look 'knight in shining armor' but the real thing is just, they are doing 
          all of those just to win the girl that they desire and to make them laid.

      6) You May Not Actually Be That Nice After All
          Are you really that nice? You are complaining when the girl refuses you
          and you never told her how you feel. You keep on showing her nice 
          things; and yet, listing all of these on your mind, expecting that she 
          would return the favor back. Is that nice?


    To some women, the honesty of a guy is more important than the traits that they possesses. They would rather pick those idiot jerks than to live into the world of lies.  Women don’t only exist to date or have sex with you. As someone else in the vast feminist blogosphere once said, women are not machines that you put friendship tokens into until sex falls out. If you can't handle that simple fact, you probably aren't ready to date anyone.