A lot of men got troubled with the
basic concept of flirting. Some men might think that flirting is about quoting
those cheesy lines like – If you gave me penny for my thoughts, I’d have just
one penny, because I only think about one thing and that’s you. – I tell you my
friend, that would not help you get your girl. Believe it or not, It may only
worsen the situation.
flirting is simply another way that two people can closely interact with each
other. It can be as simple smile, it depends on your goal when you flirt with someone of interest to you. There
are many possible reasons why people flirt. One of these is to show that you
are interested in getting to know them better.But one of the
most important aspect of flirting is the intention behind it.
Understanding the
concept of flirting might be essential for men. So i looked over the internet
and found the article - The
Art Of Flirting (And How To Do It). Christian, the writer of the article
itself, stated that "The main problem guys
have with flirting is that they relate it directly to sex. If I flirt with the
girl for long enough, she's more likely to have sex with me. Women, on the
other hand, view flirting as nothing more than some harmless fun with no
determined end-game." Christian added, " Understanding the
brain's response to flirting should help us to engage with women on their
level, rather than as a covert operation to get naked with her!" Here are
some of his ideas for flirting successfully without coming across like a
sex-crazed lunatic:
Keep contact to a
minimum. In previous blogs, you have learned that body contact is a very powerful weapon in the flirting world. According to James B, you should use it with caution; because if you over do it, you'll appear overbearing and creepy.
Avoid over-confidence. Confidence is what most women find in men. Confidence Can make you look more exciting and more interesting. But don't you know that confidence could make or destroy your moves? Too much self-confidence could turn off women so avoid being over-confident.
Don't play it too
cool. Woman wants to be heard more than to listen on your lingering fables. So instead of inflicting your self trying to be cool to her, take your time to know her by listening to her stories.
These are only three of his ideas on key to a successful flirting. If you want to read more about this matter, you can check out the article above written by christian.
Knowing how to flirt properly may lead to a romantic relationship. It is
really magical. It is like a potion that can attract woman's desire for you. However there is always a risk in dealing with girls. It
mustn't be too much because it may lead to over bearing feeling. In the other
hand, it mustn't be too light because your target might now receive your
message. Everything must be in balance and under control.
Practicing the proper flirtation manner may build your
confidence that could attract more women. However, you should be responsible in
every action that you make because it may build or destroy your personality. So be careful in using this key.
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