Monday, January 28, 2013

Bad boys Vs. Nice Guys

Why do girls always prefer the distant, aloof, handsome, dangerous dudes instead of cheerful chaps like me?





        Who can ever forget Dwayne Johnson known as the rock, the most popular James Bond, and Robin Padilla - the "bad boy" of Philippine cinema. All of them are bunch of jerks yet they are also magnet of gorgeous, hot leading ladies. Yes, all of them posses a bad boy image and muscular physique, but what is with these guys that made them magnet of hot ladies?

        It's not only in the film bad boy look more awesome than good guys. In fact i know some woman who always go for asshole and end up crying in the shoulders of their nice guy friends who are always there for them yet never given a chance to display their affection. what a world totally abundant of friend zoned guys !


        I was surfing the internet a while a go when I check out the article entitled "Why do women like jerks and bad boys?" . Dan Bacon mentioned that, In most cases, the type of guy who is considered a “nice guy” will be less confident and masculine than a bad boy or jerk. A “nice guy” is usually a nervous, anxious type who assumes that by being really nice, a woman will think, “Wow, he's so nice. I think he would be a good boyfriend!” and then choose him. He'll be as nice and friendly and possible and wait for the woman to show that she is interested in him. Then, he'll tell her his feelings and she will reject him.  

     Well, I have a theory on this, Women doesn't like those bunches of jerks for their self alone.  Instead, it is the confidence of those assholes who attracts those gorgeous and loving women. Their confidence is the one who makes them look more exciting and more interesting. And I guess, if all those nice guys will gain more confidence for themselves, there will be no room for girls to put them into the platonic and most common cause of death-  The Friend Zone. 


  


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